My Domme Awakening

It all started coming into place when I was 24 years old (I’m 30 years old now as of 2022), attending a fetish party in my first ever purchased latex bodysuit, feeling the most dominant I had ever in my life. An older male submissive sent me a drink across the bar, and with the bartender’s help asked if he could approach me, which I allowed, and he came around and knelt in front of me. He referred to me as Goddess, treated me with great respect all evening, danced with me for my entertainment, fetched drinks for my friends and I, and we exchanged numbers at the end of the evening when he asked if he could take me on a date.

At that point, I didn’t know I had it in me to be Dominant because I never really had been to the full potential that I wanted to be. He opened my eyes to this whole new world that already lived internally inside my imagination, but I was too hesitant to bring to life. On our first date, he wined and dined me, we discussed our interests, and spent the night together. After playing together, multiple dates, hotel stays, and local weekend trips, we ended up in a relationship for some time.. a “female-led” relationship where he wanted to be told what to do all the time and for me to make all of his decisions (except for his work life). Our relationship was kinky and delightful and I found out so much about what I was into, however, when it came down to it, I did not want to be in a 24/7 BDSM relationship. I enjoyed playing with a person, but did not want them to give practically all of their autonomy over to me. Our relationship lasted for approximately a year, and then I continued on to dating and playing with other kinky/ non-vanilla people since then.

I wanted to be a Domme for a while, after having the experience of being a full-service sex worker. During my time as a full- service sex worker, I have had the more kinky client here and there, who has the golden shower or latex fetish, wants to be my puppy or my sex slave, but the end of the session will always end up with them fucking me and coming to completion at the end. BDSM is much more psychological to me. I enjoy the elements beyond the sexuality, bringing you to a state of submission that you crave and to feel free and liberated about whatever it is that turns you on that is not typical and gets your mind to that place you want to go. I have studied psychology in school, studied and read about kink, attended workshops, and put my learning into real-life play on-and-off for the last 5 years.

I am finally here as Mistress Saundra and have brought myself as a Dominatrix into fruition & can’t wait to play professionally with and get inside the minds of submissives in the years to come & to continue my growth with kink. To playing with you and creating the scenes of our fantasies!