I am a tall and curvy Mistress. I am about 5’10” without heels.
I am in my mid 30’s, but am usually mistaken for looking younger than I actually am.
I am of Eastern/Northern European background, but born in Canada.

You will refer to me as “Mistress”, “Mistress Saundra”, and in some scenes that involve worship, “Goddess” is acceptable.
“Nurse Saundra” is also welcome while in medfet roleplay.

I am a versatile woman and therefore my Domme style is the same. With my experience in SW of over 10 years, I can read a vibe pretty well, and match my energy to your specific desire. I naturally have a sensual / seductive / teasing nature to me in session, however I can range from encouraging and nurturing, stern and requiring obedience, demanding and insistent, cold and cruel, etc.

In my personal life, I have explored fetish / kink / BDSM since 2014.
I came into my dominance personally and in play in 2016.
I started professional domination in 2022.

You would take the role of the cuck and watch my partner pleasure me.

A long session of adorning your back with an elaborate play piercing design.

An extended, overnight medfet scene.

Attending a fetish event together.

You book myself and another Domme for a duo session. Bonus points if they have skills I can learn from them to expand my medfet repetoire.

See my list of play possibilities here. Look at the bottom of this page as well to see my hard limits/activities that I do not engage in before you ask me.

See my list of “play possibilities” here. At the bottom of this page you can also find my list of hard limits (activities that I won’t engage in with you).

You will see on my Tribute page that there is a distinction between Domination and Domination +++.

I offer Domination +++ at a higher rate ($500) than my usual Domination rate ($350).

Domination +++ ($500/hr) is inclusive of kissing, facesitting/ DATY/ DATO, and FS with me making use of you as I please.
(A $350/hr Domination session on its own does not include these more intimate activities.)

I am also a FSSW under a different name, so if you are just looking for a sensual time with a bit of kink, and without a strong power play dynamic, direct your inquiry through that channel, here.

This is based on the experience you choose:

Domination ($350/hr):

• no touching of my body unless given permission to do so

• no kissing

• no oral or penetrative activities performed on me

• no oral activities performed on you

• no extreme stinky foot / stinky armpit fetishes ( I really dislike not being showered)

• no WAM play (specificallty sploshing / food play)

• no wrestling

• no race play

Domination +++ ($500/hr) :

• no oral activities performed on you

• no extreme stinky foot / stinky armpit fetishes ( I really dislike not being showered)

• no WAM play (specificallty sploshing / food play)

• no wrestling

• no race play

I currently do not, as I prefer in-person domination (with the exception of one-on-one Zoom video calls (see “Virtual Domination”.
On my Twitter, Bluesky, and Instagram page, you can find some photos and short videos.

There are certain keepsakes I can add to an in-person session at a price, such as:
-a bottle of golden
-worn panties

See “Shopping Trips” and “Fetish Events” at the bottom of my rates page for my preferred ways to spend social time out in public.

If you are interested in a social date before a scheduled session at a coffee shop, restaurant, bar, shop, or mall nearby the dungeon we are sessioning at, the rate is $250/hr. Everything is paid by you, and if we are going to a shop/mall there is a minimum spend of $500/hr on top.

First off, did you fill out the booking form without taking into consideration my hard limits and you have requested something that I do not offer? That is why I did not reply to you. If you were mindful of my hard limits in you requests, have you waited up to 48 hours for me to respond? If you have, make sure you check my availability to see if I have been “out of office” for some time. If I was unavailable, give me another day to get to emails.

Secondly, did you send me a follow-up email with your screening/verification info? (photo ID/ Linked-In account URL or references’ website and contact info). Did you ask for my discreet email to send the e-transfer? (I need you to be aware that you need to send a deposit to secure the dungeon or my transportation fee to you.)

Also important to note is that before you take the time to resubmit a form or email me, make sure that my email is not in your Spam folder. The web has some seriously mysterious ways of blocking people in the adult industries from doing their work. If you still have not received a reply, feel free to email or text me to let me know.

I like to play with submissives who are generous, thoughtful, curious, and adventurous, as well as those who have the capability to let their ego go in session and surrender to the present moment.

Follow my booking protocols.
Do not text me saying “hey” “you available?” “rates?”
Fill out the booking form on this page completely- without distractions and in a thoughtful manner.
Make sure you have included your screening info, or sent the photo of your ID to my email address: mistress.saundra@protonmail.com .
Ask for my discreet email address in this email so that you cam send me an e-transfer for deposit.
All of these steps show me that you are not wasting my time and are serious about meeting me.
Wait for my reply within the next 24 hours.
If you miss the email follow-up with your verification info, and only fill out the booking form, I may not reply to you, as you have not shown seriousness to booking a session with me by trying to skip by screening/ verification.

Live your life as you would, and make sure you are hydrated, nourished, and in a headspace where you are open to new possibilities and able to communicate.

If you need additional communication to make you feel more comfortable before meeting, consider booking a text session or video call to break the ice before meeting in-person.

Doing something for the first time, or doing something that is exciting can cause us to feel nervous because we have put a lot of our mental energy into preparing for the moment. Sometimes vocalizing the feeling and not trying to push it away makes you more in tune with it and able to conquer it. Tell me you are nervous if you are when you arrive.
Keep in mind that if you have provided me with honest and complete information, you are in good hands and I have studied your booking form to know how to curate the experience for you. Now is your time to let me take the lead and submit.

Unless you have stated that you are into humiliation for your session, I will not belittle you or find faults with you.

Impact play/ corporal punishment doesn’t do much for me/ isn’t one of my favourites in my play possibilities list , so yes, we can definitely have a session that does not involve inflicting pain on you.

Try me (as long as it’s not on my “Hard Limits” list). I am not here to judge or criticize you, only to give you a safe space to explore your fantasies, and continue to intrigue my curiousity about human psychology.

Just tell me. It is okay to say no if we are not playing in a brat or consensual non-consent state. (which I won’t do with first time clients).

Or, use your safe word, and play will automatically come to a complete stop. I don’t actually want to hurt you or psychologically damage you. We can take a few moments to decompress and chat about what just happened, or I can continue the scene leaving what it was that you changed your mind about out of play.

Most important: you need to feel comfortable to communicate and let me know where you are at mentally if it is not in the desired headspace.

If they are lengthy requests you couldn’t fit into a booking form or if you are writing an email that is never-ending, book a consultation via text messaging or a Zoom video call. See “Consultation” for rates.

Unpaid? No.

I am open to the possibility of having a service sub sissy maid who cleans my home (given that you are a regular client, and have proven your ability to clean at a dungeon space)

I have been involved in the adult industry since 2013, and I would not ruin my reputation and the trust that my clients have in me that their personal information remains private and anonymous.

Think of providing your ID for screening as an equivalent to providing your credit card to a hotel for incidentals. If you do not cause damage to your room, your card will not be charged. If you do not harm me (by physical or sexual assault, stalking, scamming, etc.), then I have absolutely no reason to use your ID against you.

You providing your ID is for my safety, and when you choose to not comply with simple screening protocols it makes me feel like you are going to try and pull some shady behaviour on me; as if you have something to hide, and I’m not comfortable meeting you.

I absolutely do not answer phone calls. Being that I am of the millennial generation, I loathe talking on the phone. I like seeing a person’s face when I am speaking with them. There is too much that can be misconstrued when you are unable to see a person’s facial expressions and mannerisms.

I do offer virtual Zoom video calls for those that are interested in an alternative to chatting on the phone.

New Clients:
1) Fill out the booking form under “Submit to Her”.
2) Send an email letting me know that you just filled out my booking form, and provide your screening info/verification (photo ID, Linked-In profile URL, or reference name, website & contact info).
3) Ask me for my discreet email address to send the deposit. Send the deposit via e-transfer.
4) Wait for Mistress Saundra to confirm the booking date/time with the dungeon.

Known Clients:
Email or text me with your requested date and time, location, as well as any details or ideas/fantasies to add on to our next session!

For a foot worship or face-sitting session at your hotel where I get to just relax/ it’s all about my pleasure/ I don’t have to plan/ just enjoy (& I’ve seen you before or you have sent screening?) I could be persuaded, if my schedule allows!

Bookings that involve any planning, packing a bag, and reserving a space, the same day will most of the time not be possible. Sessions involve planning, scheduling, communication and curation. Be respectful of my time.

Depends.. what sort of scene is it? What activities do you want to partake in? Do you want a little taste or a full, immersive experience? Do you need time to drop into a session and be fully present? The most important question: how long of a session are you able to afford? Before you ask me how long of a session you should book, at least provide me with a range of the # of hours you can afford for your budget at the time.

For bookings of 2 hours or longer, you may request that I wear a latex outfit. Otherwise, I generally session in seductive, business casual wear.
If there is something specific you would like me to see me in, book a shopping trip or purchase the garments for me and bring it to our session. Let me know before you purchase a gift to ensure that I would be pleased to receive it, and to ensure that it is the right sizing. Surprises are nice, but receiving something you didn’t want or that doesn’t fit isn’t.

I make use of the Kneeling Room in the east end of Toronto (Cabbagetown neighbourhood), as well as Studio Ludus in the west end of the city (Mount Dennis neighbourhood).

You will receive the main intersection of the space upon confirmation of the booking (screening, deposit, and time/date of booking confirmed).

The day before the booking, you will receive the exact address and how to access the dungeon space.

Text or email me that you are here when you park. Wait in your car or nearby until I message you back/acknowledge that you are here. I will let you know it’s okay to come to the door.

Knock on the door, and wait for me to open it for you. I will greet you, show you around the dungeon, give you a chance to put your bags down, use the washroom, and to discuss any other scene negotiation before we get started with the session.

By now (within the first 5 minutes of you arriving), you would have given me the tribute/payment for the session (in an unsealed envelope is the best way to hand it to me).

Then, it’s your turn to turn off your work and worry brain, and surrender yourself under my dominance.

At exactly the time that you booked for. Not before.

If you are running late, I will likely have to take that time off of the session, as we have the space rented for a certain amount of time, and dungeons are busy with many bookings/ it is likely not possible to stay later.

Yes, this can be accomodated.
There will be a fee to include my transportation to and from you.
You will need to provide me with the address, room #, confirm with me at least an hour beforehand the day of, and be very specific with where I am to meet you. Many hotels require a key card for elevator access, so you will likely have to come get me from the lobby, bar, at the elevators, etc. (based on your need for discretion). Clear and timely communication is needed, or I will not be arriving for the session.

I have various implements, toys, and fetishwear in my collection (blog post to come).
For a 1 hour booking, I will carry up to a large tote bag.
For multiple hour bookings, I am able to bring a suitcase.

Yes, I absolutely will prompt you to chat about the details of our session after you have provided screening, deposit, and we have a booking confirmed. I enjoy having negotiations mostly taken care of prior to meeting for the session.

I will ask you some clarifying questions about the session details in your booking form, to which I expect an email response.

If you would like to communicate these answers to me via text message or video call, this can be arranged (see my “virtual offerings” on my Tribute page.)

I might also make some (mandatory) requests for you to take care of before you arrive: ex. prep for anal, come in chastity.

This is also your chance to communicate anything else I should be aware of for the session.

Simply put, for my safety. This is non-negotiable. I won’t agree to see you unless you have provided at least 1 form of verification. You are proving to me that you are who you are, and having this information about you is your first step in giving me trust as the Domme that you chose to reach out to and want to pursue deeper levels of submission with.

Sending a deposit proves you are committing to the booking, and pre-payment is needed to reserve a dungeon space.

I will not accept your e-transfer deposit until we have a confirmed date and time for the booking.

CAD Cash is the best form of payment.
USD Cash is accepted at a 1:1 ratio, although CAD currency is highly preferred.
E-transfer is acceptable for deposits. Passwords are required for e-transfers and the password should be: Toronto .
Throne is acceptable for deposits if you do not have a CAD bank account.

Don’t “no-show”. If you really can’t make it in because your nerves have the best of you, the least you can do is let me know that something came up and you won’t be coming. You will not receive a deposit back as I would be in the dungeon preparing for your arrival (and the booking has to be cancelled within a 48 hour time frame). If you wanted the chance to rebook, you would send me an apology 50% of the session tribute via e-transfer or Throne monetary gift.

For sessions at the dungeon: If you cancel your booking without giving more than 48 hours notice, I will expect you to send me 50% of the session rate via e-transfer (or a gift card of my choosing) as an apology. Your deposit is also void as I had to pay to secure the time in the dungeon. If you wish to book another session, you will need to send a new deposit. If you cancel before the 24 hour point, you may reschedule within a month without needing to pay a new deposit.

For sessions to your hotel/residence: If you do no cancel within 24 hours of our scheduled session, I will expect that you send me 50% of the session rate via e-transfer (or a gift card of my choosing) as an apology. If you have sent a deposit for travelling to you, you may reschedule and this amount will still be valid.

All that we pre-negotiated before the scene that we have time for.
None of your hard limits you have stated to me that you definitely don’t want to partake in.
Consent can change and it is perfectly okay to change your mind mid-scene about a specific type of play that you wanted to experience. You must be honest with yourself and with me about where you are at because I can’t actually read your mind perfectly.

You don’t need to worry about the passing of time. I do not clock watch, but check the time when necessary discreetly to ensure our session is at the pace where I need it to be on the experience I am curating for you. I will bring down the energy of the session to a slower pace, begin starting to implement your aftercare requests or vocalize it by letting you know it’s time to get in the shower, time to come back to your own conscience, etc.

I end the session approximately 10 minutes before the end time, so that you are able to come back into yourself, get dressed, before it is time for you to go.
A 1 hour session really involves 40-50 mins of actual play, depending on the amount of pre-negotiation and aftercare required.